Showing posts with label Poison. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Poison. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 8, 2014

DEMANDING ACTION

“The Universe doesn’t give you what you ask for with your thoughts – it gives you what you demand with your actions.” -Steve Maraboli
In an effort to give you a few tools to arm yourself for the task of that demand, I give you excerpts from and links to 3 different action-taking self-help type spots. 


With respect to goals, projects, and other to-do items, it’s easy to get stuck too long in the thinking and planning phase.  You can sit around writing and rewriting your goals, delving into your subconscious mind, working through emotional blocks, summoning the power of Thor… whatever.  

But if you don’t eventually get into action, you’re wasting your time.

How can you get into a sustainable mode of direct action without feeling like you have to torture yourself to get moving?  What can you do to cross the barrier between merely thinking about what you want and actually making it happen with your own two hands?

Here’s a simple technique I use.  This has worked very well for me when I’ve applied it.  It usually takes only 5-10 minutes.

     (Click the link above to see the whole post including the techniques.)
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People at the top of every profession share one quality — they get things done. This ability supercedes intelligence, talent, and connections in determining the size of your salary and the speed of your advancement.

Despite the simplicity of this concept there is a perpetual shortage of people who excel at getting results. The action habit — the habit of putting ideas into action now — is essential to getting things done. Here are 7 ways you can grow the action habit:

(Click the link above to see more…)
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"If you pay attention, you learn something from taking a smart step. More often than not, it gets you close to what you want."
This is an excerpt from Just Start: Take Action, Embrace Uncertainty, Create the Future. Note that "Creaction" is a word the authors made up by combining "creation" with "action."

What exactly is Creaction? Well, to start, it is based on acting and creating evidence, as contrasted with thinking and analysis.

Here’s one way to think about that pivotal difference. A dancer dances. Substituting thinking for dancing doesn’t work. If all you do is think, you end up just thinking about dancing. There is nothing to show for that thought.

Thinking is often a part of creating, but without action, nothing is created. This is true for even very intellectual, cerebral fields. For a task to be considered creating, you must publish, teach, or whatever. Daydreaming by itself is not creating.

How does Creaction play out in practice? How does it help us deal with uncertainty? The process has three parts, which repeat until you have reached your goal or decide you no longer want to. 

(Again, click the link above to learn more.)
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As a bonus, dear readers, I'm sharing one of my favorite 80's hair metal videos, about action, albeit a different kind of action. It was the 80s afterall.





Friday, August 9, 2013

A Most Outrageous Marketing Suggestion

First: PIMPAGE!!

Are any of you old enough to remember the Donny and Marie Show? She'd sing, "I'm a little bit country." He'd sing, "I'm a little bit rock-n-roll." Fellow Word-Whore Jeffe and I have some of the same thing going on. Only we're comfortably certain no one wants us to sing. You see, Jeffe and I each have a story in a brand new, two volume sword and sorcery anthology edited by former Word-Whore James Ray Tuck Jr called THUNDER ON THE BATTLE FIELD. Volume one is titled SWORD. Volume two is titled SORCERY. This brings us back to the Donny and Marie shtick. I'm a little bit sword. (My story, Emissary, is in volume one.) Jeffe's a little bit sorcery. (Her story, Negotiation, is in volume two.) The anthology is out in e-format only for the moment. Print copies are due at the end of the month.

 
Links for both volumes:
Thunder on the Battlefield: Sword
Kindle version: http://www.amazon.com/Thunder-Battlefield-Sword-ebook/dp/B00EE0YL8Y

Nook version: http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/thunder-on-the-battlefield-james-r-tuck/1116359898?ean=2940148400639

Thunder on the Battlefield: Sorcery
Kindle version: http://www.amazon.com/Thunder-Battlefield-Sorcery-ebook/dp/B00EE15GY6

Nook verison: http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/thunder-on-the-battlefield-james-r-tuck/1116359900?ean=2940148400660


ON TO THE MARKETING ADVICE!!!
The most outrageous marketing scheme I have to offer may lie in the fact that I'm attempting to offer any kind of marketing advice whatsoever. Witty or elegant marketing is not notable among my achievements. Also? Unless you can prove your marketing actually resulted in sales? It's not marketing, it's flailing.

So. My Most Outrageous Marketing Suggestion: Relax. It doesn't matter who you are or how closely you orbit the bright, shining center of the publishing galaxy. Take a deep breath and slow down the pace on that 'seeking SEO' treadmill.

I know. I know. This runs counter to all of the panicked WEBSITE! BLOG!TWITTERFACEBOOKPINTERISTINSTATUMBwhatever the hell is next hysteria. Any number of people will espouse their preferred poison and tell you why their particular combo of social media blitzing is the must-have marketing snake oil du jour. Of course you can drink the snake oil if you want! Just approach it the way you'd hope to survive ingesting arsenic - in tiny initial doses.

No need to chug that stuff until you find out whether or not you even like the taste. Therein lies the kernel of madness in the method I suggest.

Dabble in all the things. Make it experimental. Play. Find out what's fun. You're going to find things that aren't. Guaranteed. The point to all of my relax advice boils down to what your mama's been telling you since you were in grade school: Be yourself. 

Wait. Let's tack another one there. Be yourself. AND: If it's not fun, don't do it.

Why?

Because if you aren't having fun, it shows as a lack of spark - passion. Where we lack passion, we lack conviction. Where we lack conviction, we hesitate. Common wisdom has it that he who hesitates is lost, ergo, if you lack passion for your social media/marketing schtick, you're lost. I offer my meager personal blogging attempts as graphic proof.

Thus, my brilliant, outrageous suggestion to relax. I'm not asking you to forego marketing completely. You shouldn't. But maybe reframe 'marketing'. Instead of thinking of elbowing your way out there into the world, consider inviting the rest of the world into your life for a cup of tea and a look around your version of reality. Do it because you're having fun, because you're being true to who and what you are.