I know this isn't a writing blog, it's a blog by writers and I think more than a few of y'all are writers yourselves.
So while this may be a bit short it will be an actual writing technique post.
Writing sex scenes.
Now, I'm not going to go into the specific tips and tricks such as pay attention to all the senses in the act of instead of focusing on just the sights and the sounds. Or using clever fresh words to describe things. (Slick being one of my faves) Or how using a lot of soft sounding words such as slick will make the scene flow. S sounds, C sounds, Z sounds roll off the tongue like....well, that's about enough of that. lol
I'm not even going to talk to you about varying the tempo of your sentence structure so that longer sentences build the tension, making it climb, building pressure as the sensations are spilled out onto the page for the eye to watch until you switch. Using shorter and shorter sentences. Quickening the pace. Moving faster. Doing. The. Deed.
Nope. Today I am going to speak, really quickly, on making the sex scene matter.
You should never write a gratuitous sex scene. Not even in erotica. If you do then you have failed. I know that sounds harsh but it's the truth. Sex is important and it means a lot of things. It can be a sign that your character is moving into a new phase of emotional growth. It can be a sign of healing. It can signify how damaged your character is. (Which is what George Pellacanos is doing in DRAMA CITY which I am reading now) But it should matter. It matters in real life and it should matter to your character and to your reader. It's not enough to write a hot scene, you have to make it serve a purpose in your character's emotional story.
There is a great book that I recommend if you need help writing that pesky lovemaking scene. It's by Stacia Kane and it's called: BE A SEX-WRITING STRUMPET.
See, here it is. Click HERE to go read more about it and where to get it. It's cheap.
She will put it all in perspective for you. LOL.
And that's all for me. Sum up, buy Stacia's book and make your sex scenes matter.
I had a great time at Con Nooga this year. Thank you to all the fans who came out to see me.
Til next monday Loyals and True Believers.