I must read the wrong sort of books to write this post. I've no recollection of reading something that made me truly hungry, which is the bordello's topic of the week.
It's not like I haven't touted the culinary prowess of certain characters in the Persephone Alcmedi series. Johnny, the werewolf King and frontman of the rock band Lycanthropia makes one hell of a macadamia nut cookie. And Nana loves to cook things that showcase her Greek heritage through cooking things such as: lahanodolmathes. (Ground beef and rice with eggs, dill, and onion rolled up in cabbage leaves; topped with avgolemono sauce—egg yolks, water, lemon juice, and corn starch—poured on right before they’re served.)
That said, I'm going to share the Epilogue of SHATTERED CIRCLE below. It's Thanksgiving Dinner, and all the characters are there. Though the 'big-picture' situation is far from ideal and their struggles are far from over, they are trying to put all that aside, briefly, and enjoy a moment of family and togetherness.
Before that, though, let me say I hope you and yours are together for Thanksgiving.
SHATTERED CIRCLE; Epilogue:
** possible spoilers if you haven't read the whole series
Right after brunch late Thursday morning, Johnny showed up with a baby pterodactyl—he claimed it was just an enormous turkey, but I had my doubts.
Since my predawn soak in the tub yesterday had ended with me so sleepy that I couldn’t keep my eyes open, he had tucked me in and snuggled beside me—but he was gone when I awoke. He’d left me a note saying that he was having his son brought to Cleveland and he had to be there when the boy and his grandmother arrived.
I understood that, and my heart was a bit relieved that the grandmother and not the mother was coming with the boy. But it meant that we spent a day and a night apart, and we hadn’t gotten to talk.
We had so much to talk about.
I could tell by the glint in his eyes that he wanted to talk to me now, but Nana got her granny panties in a twist over that giant bird we had to roast. She began arguing with him about who was going to cook. I nearly left the room twice, but finally they settled their mock dispute—and then started debating whether or not it was possible to cook a partially frozen turkey.
The Internet confirmed it was safe and doable, but would add 50 percent more time to the already interminable five hours the twenty-three pounder would take. Once they had gauged the seven and a half hours and decided they needed to get that thing in the oven pronto, I asked if they were going to stuff it.
Bad move on my part.
Their lighthearted fight turned into some kind of Iron Chef stuffing challenge. When they began disagreeing on whether it was “dressing” or “stuffing,” I left.
As I climbed the steps to the second floor, I was confident that no matter what, our Thanksgiving dinner was going to be a scrumptious feast. I showered, then returned to my unmade bed and lay down wrapped in my towel. My whole body remained sore and I was at my limit of ibuprofen tabs. Admittedly, when Mountain had come to patch the hole in the floor yesterday, I shouldn’t have insisted on helping. I thought it would help work my muscles out of being tight and achy.
That hadn’t been the case.
My body was taxed to its limit by my meditation incident, and by the added strain of all that Menessos had done. When my eyes shut, my thoughts swirled around Beverley. My heart fretted over that “L” word, a boy, and where his mother might be. And my soul worried that Hades wasn’t done with me yet.
***
When everything in the kitchen was under control, Johnny inspected the damage to the house.
Mountain had gotten everything patched or repaired except the old rotary phone. Its place on the wall was empty, the cords duct-taped into the hole in the wall.
Demeter dug out a tablecloth and hand washed it in the sink, then threw it in the dryer. While she was waiting on it, Johnny heard her talking to Eris on the phone.
It was clear that Eris was inviting herself and her son— Red’s half brother, Lance—to Thanksgiving dinner.
Demeter couldn’t exactly say no, even when she heard Lance’s protests in the background.
When the call ended, Demeter came to Johnny. “I take it your wolf ears heard that?”
“Yup. I’ll see what I can do about fixing the dinette table.”
“Me, you, and Persephone are three, Eris and Lance make five. Mountain and Zhan make seven. The big dining room set will seat twelve if we pull out all the leaves.”
“My son and his grandmother are coming.”
“That’s nine.”
“Gregor is driving them.”
“Ten.”
“I invited Celia and Erik.”
“That’s twelve. Four wærewolves. No wonder you brought an ostrich to roast.”
“It’s just a big turkey. I swear.” Johnny sucked in a breath. “I also invited Menessos.”
She nodded approval, then abruptly waved him off.
“He won’t eat.”
“He will bring Beverley.”
Demeter’s face lit up with a grin.
***
By seven thirty, my world was locked in a blissful moment. I sat at the end of my big dining table and could see into the living room and the kitchen with a turn of my head.
Everyone I cared for most was here, in my home, with full bellies.
Johnny and Erik were laughing it up in the living room with Celia and Gregor close by. Nana and Toni— with Evan sitting close beside her, petting my dog, Ares—were on the couch chatting like old friends. In the kitchen, Menessos had a serious look on his face; he must have been briefing Mountain and Zhan. My mother and half brother were whispering at the far end of the table.
Beverley was on my lap and I had my arms wrapped around her.
Her dark hair had been cut into a bob and there was a new necklace around her throat. I had thought, at first, that it was a weave of ribbons, but I now recognized that it was strands of her deep brown hair woven with the paler walnut-brown strands from Menessos and also some blond, which I would guess was Risqué’s. Hair of a demon, or a half-demon, had to pack some power. . . . I was sure it was a means to help her control the power brimming inside her, but I couldn’t help remembering the shabbubitu’s words about Beverley being bound to the vampire. And Menessos was wearing a necklace of the same around his throat.
Eris announced she was going out for a smoke, and Lance accompanied her into the garage.
“I missed you so much,” I whispered into Beverley’s ear and squeezed her tighter, pulling her head under my chin. “And I was so worried about you.”
She hugged me back. When she eased back into place, I saw her eyes were glassy with unshed tears.
“What is it?” I asked.
“I’m just so scared . . . like my mom was. I’m scared of what I’ve become.”
“Oh, honey.” I smoothed her hair and kissed her forehead. “All this Lustrata stuff scares me, too.” I offered her my most reassuring smile. “But we will find a way. Together.”
Minutes later, she slipped away from me and went to stand with Menessos. She slipped her hand into his and whispered something to him.
Movement on the other side of me caught my attention.
Evan was slowly walking toward Johnny. Ares followed him. I got up and stepped to the doorway of the living room to watch. I’d been introduced to the boy, who was the spitting image of Johnny. He was polite, but there was an all-boy orneriness in his smile. Nana would probably have said he was full of piss and vinegar. But Ares clearly liked him, and that meant something to me.
Johnny wrapped his arm around the boy and gently pulled him closer. “Evan, did I tell you that Erik here is my very best friend?”
Evan shook his head. “No.”
I noticed that Erik had proudly squared his shoulders.
Beverley stepped up beside me and I felt Menessos at my back.
“Well, he is. We’ve been friends a long, long time. Who’s your best friend?”
Nana and Toni quieted, both listening.
Evan shrugged. His voice sounded small and dejected as he said, “I dunno. Gramma said we were moving here. I won’t get to see my friends anymore.”
Johnny’s smile diminished.
The joyful ambience of the room dropped into sadness.
“I’ll be your friend,” Beverley said, stepping into the living room.
Evan looked her up and down, and a slow smile came to his lips. “Really?”
In moments, they had decided to play. “Can I show him my room?” Beverley asked, facing me and Menessos.
“Yes,” we said in unison.
The kids hurried up the stairs.
It was remarkable, and I was reminded that in youth, friendship really is that simple.
Johnny came to the doorway and extended his hand to Menessos as a lopsided smile rounded his cheek. “Thanks for comin’, vamp.”
“Your invitation was an unanticipated show of charity, wolf.”
I grabbed their clasped hands in both of mine. I let them see in my eyes what this moment, what everyone together, but especially them, meant to me.
“It wasn’t charity,” he began, pausing briefly when we heard the garage door open and shut as Eris and Lance returned. “Sometimes blood and breeding aligns you with people you are glad to have in your life, and it’s easy to honor those bonds. Sometimes it’s the opposite.”
“Sometimes Fate aligns you with people you don’t want in your life,” Menessos added, the obvious question conveyed in his tone.
Between my hands, I felt Johnny’s grip tighten on Menessos.
“Sometimes we have to grow up and accept what Fate has in store for us, and put our faith in the alliances we are given.”
Thinking on my recent experiences, I whispered, “All Hell is about to break loose. Are we ready for this?”
“We all now know”—Menessos paused to make a poignant glance at the people in the living room, and give a nod to indicate the kiddos upstairs—“precisely what we are fighting for.” He added his free hand atop mine. Johnny put his free hand atop Menessos’s. With a wink at me, I knew he’d heard me earlier when his response was, “We will find a way. Together.”
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Wednesday, November 25, 2015
Appetizing Anecdotes
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I'm the author of the PERSEPHONE ALCMEDI SERIES: #1 - VICIOUS CIRCLE, #2 -HALLOWED CIRCLE, #3 -
FATAL CIRCLE, #4 - ARCANE CIRCLE, #5 - WICKED CIRCLE, AND #6 -SHATTERED CIRCLE, several short stories, and the IMMANENCE SERIES: #1 - JOVIENNE.
Sunday, November 22, 2015
Do It, Baby - Make Me Hungry!
Yes, Yes - the blog header says we're Science Fiction and Fantasy authors, but *some* of us (cough), write in other genres. Like me, with my contemporary, erotic romances. When this week's topic, What Novels Made You Literally Hungry, came up (appropriate enough, with this being the week of U.S. Thanksgiving, the holiday of gluttony), I immediately thought of my own book, RUBY.
I wrote this book at the urging of a friend, in fact, who really wanted me to write a story where food and sex intertwine. This one juxtaposes a self-disciplined, driven woman in the fashion industry who watches every calorie she eats with a New Orleans chef and owner of a five-star restaurant. He courts her with food - and all kinds of sensual indulgences.
In an interesting coincidence (maybe not - holiday of gluttony and all...), another of Bobby's recipes will be featured at Pearl's Inner Goddess Forum. She's doing a series on Feisty Foodies: Recipes and Reads from Romance Authors, which will include Bobby's Gingerbread Pudding with Bourbon Sauce.
It's a funny thing, and a conversation Elisabeth and I have had, that romance books tend to be much better for food inspiration than SFF, in general. She thinks this is because SFF characters spend so much time running around, questing and eating field rations. She has a point there.
However, one in-genre author who does *fantastically* at this is Jennifer Estep in her Elemental Assassins urban fantasy series. Her heroine, Gin Blanco, is an assassin, yes - but also owns a barbeque restaurant. Throughout each story, Gin - who cooks when under stress - serves up the greasiest, sweetest and unhealthiest home-cooking you've ever read. With all the characters forever in danger of death, this works out for them, but if you plan on living to old age, watch the cravings this addictive series induces!
Total autobuy series for me, book #14, BITTER BITE, comes out in February! Yes, I've totally preordered mine. With the holiday time-off coming, you all have time to catch-up on this action- and food-packed series. It reads super-fast. You can do it.
I wrote this book at the urging of a friend, in fact, who really wanted me to write a story where food and sex intertwine. This one juxtaposes a self-disciplined, driven woman in the fashion industry who watches every calorie she eats with a New Orleans chef and owner of a five-star restaurant. He courts her with food - and all kinds of sensual indulgences.
Danielle Sosna has no problem denying herself in order to achieve her goals—after all, that attitude landed her a dream job at Vogue Paris. But in New Orleans for one last assignment before heading overseas, she’s faced with the most decadent of temptations. Seductive Cajun chef Bobby Prejean takes Dani’s strength of will as a challenge, and offers her a night of wild indulgence—if she will agree to obey his every command.
Dani can’t resist Prejean’s invitation to join him in a world of carnal desire, complete with fetish costumes and masks. Determined to keep her emotional distance, she gives Prejean everything but her name. A night becomes a week, as she spends Mardi Gras suspended in the delicious space where pleasure meets pain.I'll tell you what - WRITING this book made me hungry! Any time a new reader picks up this story, I get messages, cursing me for making them hungry. One blogger, the fantastically creative Elisabeth Lane at Cooking Up Romance, even recreated one of Bobby Prejean's recipes that he feeds Dani.
Too late, she realizes the cloak of anonymity has not protected her—and that chasing her dream might come at the expense of her heart.

In an interesting coincidence (maybe not - holiday of gluttony and all...), another of Bobby's recipes will be featured at Pearl's Inner Goddess Forum. She's doing a series on Feisty Foodies: Recipes and Reads from Romance Authors, which will include Bobby's Gingerbread Pudding with Bourbon Sauce.
It's a funny thing, and a conversation Elisabeth and I have had, that romance books tend to be much better for food inspiration than SFF, in general. She thinks this is because SFF characters spend so much time running around, questing and eating field rations. She has a point there.
However, one in-genre author who does *fantastically* at this is Jennifer Estep in her Elemental Assassins urban fantasy series. Her heroine, Gin Blanco, is an assassin, yes - but also owns a barbeque restaurant. Throughout each story, Gin - who cooks when under stress - serves up the greasiest, sweetest and unhealthiest home-cooking you've ever read. With all the characters forever in danger of death, this works out for them, but if you plan on living to old age, watch the cravings this addictive series induces!Total autobuy series for me, book #14, BITTER BITE, comes out in February! Yes, I've totally preordered mine. With the holiday time-off coming, you all have time to catch-up on this action- and food-packed series. It reads super-fast. You can do it.
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Friday, November 28, 2014
Gratitude in Writing
Writing doesn't happen in a vacuum. If it does, all too often, it isn't much good. Ideas that are challenged grow wings - so long as the challenging is done with respect and love. Any of you who've looked at my books and taking any note of the huge list of acknowledgements in the front. know I thank the same people over and over again. That's for a reason. They're the people I can count on through thick and through thin to talk me down from whichever writing ledge I may be staring down. Fellow Word Whores Jeffe Kennedy and KAK and former Word Whore Carolyn Crane will all give me the straight skinny my stories and/or ideas.
I'm lucky in that I have a local critique group that meets in person. Lisa Wanttaja, Darcy Carson, DeeAnna Galbraith and Melinda Rucker Haynes work their backsides off combing whatever I'm writing to make sure I'm making sense and the stories hold together. The great thing about this group is that it's been meeting since before forever. These ladies know me and my writing. Sometimes, it means they know what I *meant* to say but failed to. Sometimes, it means they can nail me for taking the easy way out of a conflict conundrum. When I can't see the forest or the trees, they're terrific at prodding me out of my rut and help me think differently about what I'm doing.
I have some of the best editors on earth and I am grateful for each and every one of them. Even my copy editors - ask any of my crit partners. I complain about my CEs. I do. And then I get over myself and seriously evaluate everything my copy editors suggest because the entire point is change my brain about how the story went together. It's the old sales technique: If there's a better way to make your point, you'd want to know about, right? Damn it. NO. . . Eh. Yeah. Yeah, I do. But I'm gonna grumble about it! It's all in the name of building a better book.
My family. My parents. My husband. My cats. All of them. These are the people who haven't (and who still don't) kill me for getting lost in my stories. They're now my biggest cheerleaders. My mother would be knocking on your door to hand sell my books to you if she liked to fly more than she does.
But you know what I'm most grateful for? You guys. Readers. Thank you. Seriously, thank you.
I'm lucky in that I have a local critique group that meets in person. Lisa Wanttaja, Darcy Carson, DeeAnna Galbraith and Melinda Rucker Haynes work their backsides off combing whatever I'm writing to make sure I'm making sense and the stories hold together. The great thing about this group is that it's been meeting since before forever. These ladies know me and my writing. Sometimes, it means they know what I *meant* to say but failed to. Sometimes, it means they can nail me for taking the easy way out of a conflict conundrum. When I can't see the forest or the trees, they're terrific at prodding me out of my rut and help me think differently about what I'm doing.
I have some of the best editors on earth and I am grateful for each and every one of them. Even my copy editors - ask any of my crit partners. I complain about my CEs. I do. And then I get over myself and seriously evaluate everything my copy editors suggest because the entire point is change my brain about how the story went together. It's the old sales technique: If there's a better way to make your point, you'd want to know about, right? Damn it. NO. . . Eh. Yeah. Yeah, I do. But I'm gonna grumble about it! It's all in the name of building a better book.
My family. My parents. My husband. My cats. All of them. These are the people who haven't (and who still don't) kill me for getting lost in my stories. They're now my biggest cheerleaders. My mother would be knocking on your door to hand sell my books to you if she liked to fly more than she does.
But you know what I'm most grateful for? You guys. Readers. Thank you. Seriously, thank you.
Wednesday, November 26, 2014
Thank You...
Before I say my thanks, let me say this to all of you:
There are so many people I would and should thank. For the most part, you know who you are and
you know that I am grateful and value what you offered/are offering to my writing path.
Writing is such a solitary act that it's easy to get lost in that lonely chair where your sole company is a white page dotted with your own words. But lately, talking book with my son (#3 of 4) has been refreshing, rewarding, reaffirming, and...the effect has been /mighty/. He has hopes of becoming a writer for video games, and as we talk I find his creativity prods me to look at my own in new ways. Also, he shows me things through a younger-generation lens, things that I have missed being so long in my lonely chair.

So I owe him. In addition to the responsibility I have to him as his mother, I owe him an extra dose of gratitude because those conversations give me back so much. Parents don't always have careers or hobbies that resonate with their children in such a way that the child seeks them out to talk about it. He does, and not only to tell me what he is working on...he asks me often for updates about my writing projects.
I cannot tell you how much that means to me.
And to my other son yet at home (#4 of 4)...who is into writing fan fiction and acting at the moment... he recently did something that made me cry. I have a dry erase board with my WIP outline. And one day I looked at it and realized there was something new on it. A heart drawn in the corner and the words: "Your working hard, keep it up, mom! love you"
That he took the time to scrawl an encouraging message, and was then silent about it (for how long?)...there is no greeting card lovelier than that drawn heart, and there is no fancily written poem that could evoke more from me than those few written words from him.
Showing them that you can do anything you set your mind to, that dreams are attainable with work, isn't just a meme I parrot to them. It is more than a lesson, it is a truth that I am blessed to be living proof of.
So yeah, I write for me...but I have maintained my goals because of them.
I will ever be thankful for my boys.
I hope that you and your dearests
are together for the holidays,
that you hug, that you laugh,
and that you give and receive all the love you can.
There are so many people I would and should thank. For the most part, you know who you are and
you know that I am grateful and value what you offered/are offering to my writing path.
Writing is such a solitary act that it's easy to get lost in that lonely chair where your sole company is a white page dotted with your own words. But lately, talking book with my son (#3 of 4) has been refreshing, rewarding, reaffirming, and...the effect has been /mighty/. He has hopes of becoming a writer for video games, and as we talk I find his creativity prods me to look at my own in new ways. Also, he shows me things through a younger-generation lens, things that I have missed being so long in my lonely chair.
So I owe him. In addition to the responsibility I have to him as his mother, I owe him an extra dose of gratitude because those conversations give me back so much. Parents don't always have careers or hobbies that resonate with their children in such a way that the child seeks them out to talk about it. He does, and not only to tell me what he is working on...he asks me often for updates about my writing projects.
I cannot tell you how much that means to me.
And to my other son yet at home (#4 of 4)...who is into writing fan fiction and acting at the moment... he recently did something that made me cry. I have a dry erase board with my WIP outline. And one day I looked at it and realized there was something new on it. A heart drawn in the corner and the words: "Your working hard, keep it up, mom! love you"
That he took the time to scrawl an encouraging message, and was then silent about it (for how long?)...there is no greeting card lovelier than that drawn heart, and there is no fancily written poem that could evoke more from me than those few written words from him.
Showing them that you can do anything you set your mind to, that dreams are attainable with work, isn't just a meme I parrot to them. It is more than a lesson, it is a truth that I am blessed to be living proof of.
So yeah, I write for me...but I have maintained my goals because of them.
I will ever be thankful for my boys.
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FATAL CIRCLE, #4 - ARCANE CIRCLE, #5 - WICKED CIRCLE, AND #6 -SHATTERED CIRCLE, several short stories, and the IMMANENCE SERIES: #1 - JOVIENNE.
Sunday, November 23, 2014
Giving It a Go at Thanking Everyone
This week I'm looking forward to the release of the second book in my TWELVE KINGDOMS series, THE TEARS OF THE ROSE. (In fact, today you can read an excerpt over at That's What I'm Talking About.) So it's mete that this week's topic is giving thanks to all those who've helped us in our writing careers.
The problem is, I'm like that stereotypical starlet stumbling up to the podium clutching her mile-long list and struck with the certain terror that she'll forget to name someone. Probably the most important someone.
I hit this same anxiety every time I go to write my acknowledgements page, though I've gotten so that, as I write a book, I keep a running draft of everyone who helps me. Seeing as how half the time I have to tell those people to look at that page, I probably stress about it more than I should. But I hope that, over time, I catch everyone eventually.
For this post, I thought it might be nice to publicly post here the acknowledgments page from THE TEARS OF THE ROSE.
I should add, also, that I seed little nods of love and gratitude throughout these books. Names of characters and places on the map of the Twelve Kingdoms often reference friends, loved ones and their pets. Little Easter eggs for them - and always a kick when they discover it. Like when Veronica Scott read the book and said she wanted to believe Lady Veronica Lianore was named for her. Which she was.
A final thank you goes out to Word Whore K.A. Krantz, for all she does in maintaining this blog and being our Tuesday pimp. You rock, baby!
Happy Thanksgiving all!
The problem is, I'm like that stereotypical starlet stumbling up to the podium clutching her mile-long list and struck with the certain terror that she'll forget to name someone. Probably the most important someone.
I hit this same anxiety every time I go to write my acknowledgements page, though I've gotten so that, as I write a book, I keep a running draft of everyone who helps me. Seeing as how half the time I have to tell those people to look at that page, I probably stress about it more than I should. But I hope that, over time, I catch everyone eventually.
For this post, I thought it might be nice to publicly post here the acknowledgments page from THE TEARS OF THE ROSE.
Many thanks to everyone at Kensington who have been so amazing to me about celebrating this book and the trilogy, especially Peter Senftleben, curmudgeonly editor extraordinaire; Vida Engstrand, delightful diva of communications; Jane Nutter, a paragon of a publicist; and Rebecca Cremonese, for being such a dedicated, enthusiastic caretaker of the pages and the story. If anyone gets to dinner & movie Ash, it will be you.
Everlasting gratitude to my critique partners: Marcella Burnard and Carolyn Crane, for the insightful, under-pressure reads and tireless support.
Thanks to my longtime friend, Marin Untiedt, who taught me to value knitting, gave me what I needed to know, and would probably be very much like this.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart to all the incredible reviewers and readers who loved The Mark of the Tala and immediately demanded this book. I hope you all like Amelia’s story, too.
Finally, thanks to my family, for being the love and balance in my life.
And always, to David, for all the little things, every day.
A final thank you goes out to Word Whore K.A. Krantz, for all she does in maintaining this blog and being our Tuesday pimp. You rock, baby!
Happy Thanksgiving all!
Thursday, November 28, 2013
Happy Thanksgiving!
So, first off to our American readers, we hope you're enjoying your holiday wherever and however you choose to celebrate it - and to that effect, I'm going to keep this post short and sweet.
Like several of my other Word Whores, I don't really tend to celebrate the milestones of my writing career in big ways - first, there are plenty I haven't met yet and some I'm never likely to meet - and that's okay. But that being said, I allow myself small celebrations.
(Usually in the form of guilt-free time wasting - e.g. a day or two of playing video games or reading a book or sewing - or just catching up on TV without
Oh...and I also reward myself with Legos - which I'm pretty sure I've mentioned in previous posts. That Lego Death Star is waiting for me, oh yes, it is.
*cough*
But still. Work and deadlines and crazy schedules aside, I'm thankful for having the opportunities that I do - and the best way to celebrate that is to go out there and make the most of them.
Thursday, November 22, 2012
Happy Thanksgiving
(And here's a recipe for some awesome bacon-wrapped turkey with pear cider gravy. )
Anyone have a recipe they're thankful for? (I'm not having the bacon turkey, though I wish I was. I am, however, looking forward to baking my meringue cookies in a few weeks, so that's good.)
Sunday, November 18, 2012
Ten Things I'm Thankful for in My Writing Career - a Retrospective
Seems like the topics lately have been lending themselves to lists. Either that or I'm in a list-y place right now.
This week, appropriately enough, given that it's Thanksgiving in the US, we're giving thanks particularly about our writing careers. This should be a pretty easy list to make, though determining the scope is less straightforward. I'm realizing just now that it's been twenty-one years since I attended the Society for Neuroscience Convention in New Orleans, melted down and faced the fact that I didn't really want to be a neuroscientist. Which was inconvenient, since I was three years into a PhD program at that point. That's also the year (coincidence?) that David and I started dating--a brief fling that's still going strong. I didn't know at the time what a pivotal year that would be for me.
Maybe we never know these things at the time.
So, without further ado, I'd like to give thanks that:
1) the universe gave me such an interesting answer when I asked what would be the perfect career for me.
2) I was surrounded by the warm and wonderful writing community at the University of Wyoming, who welcomed me in and offered me the tools I needed to grow into being a writer.
3) David supported me from the very beginning and even remodeled the old coal bin for me, so I could have a place to write.
4) I found a series of jobs and appreciative bosses who let me fiddle with my work schedules.
5) there are so many opportunities to send my writing into the world, from tiny university literary journals to magazines to anthologies to book publishers, digital and traditional, great and small - all staffed by extraordinary, dedicated people who love a good story.
6) there are also so many fine organizations to support writers - like the Wyoming Arts Council, the Ucross Foundation, Romance Writers of America. They were there for me when I got started
7) there is the fabulous, interconnected, multi-faceted beast the internet community has become. ~presses nose to screen~ All my friends are in there!
8) so many readers are so generous with their love of books. All those book bloggers who spend the equivalent of part-time, or even full-time, jobs writing reviews and talking up their favorite authors. All the people who take the time to post ranks on Goodreads and stars on Amazon, who tweet, email and Facebook message just to say that they loved a book.
9) that I live such a blessed life, that I get to spend my time doing this. That I am not living in a war zone, am not poverty-stricken, that I have the civil rights to write whatever I please, that I don't have to worry about my basic survival.
10) the universe gives us stories to tell in the first place.
Happy Thanksgiving everyone!
This week, appropriately enough, given that it's Thanksgiving in the US, we're giving thanks particularly about our writing careers. This should be a pretty easy list to make, though determining the scope is less straightforward. I'm realizing just now that it's been twenty-one years since I attended the Society for Neuroscience Convention in New Orleans, melted down and faced the fact that I didn't really want to be a neuroscientist. Which was inconvenient, since I was three years into a PhD program at that point. That's also the year (coincidence?) that David and I started dating--a brief fling that's still going strong. I didn't know at the time what a pivotal year that would be for me.
Maybe we never know these things at the time.
So, without further ado, I'd like to give thanks that:
1) the universe gave me such an interesting answer when I asked what would be the perfect career for me.
2) I was surrounded by the warm and wonderful writing community at the University of Wyoming, who welcomed me in and offered me the tools I needed to grow into being a writer.
3) David supported me from the very beginning and even remodeled the old coal bin for me, so I could have a place to write.
4) I found a series of jobs and appreciative bosses who let me fiddle with my work schedules.
5) there are so many opportunities to send my writing into the world, from tiny university literary journals to magazines to anthologies to book publishers, digital and traditional, great and small - all staffed by extraordinary, dedicated people who love a good story.
6) there are also so many fine organizations to support writers - like the Wyoming Arts Council, the Ucross Foundation, Romance Writers of America. They were there for me when I got started
7) there is the fabulous, interconnected, multi-faceted beast the internet community has become. ~presses nose to screen~ All my friends are in there!
8) so many readers are so generous with their love of books. All those book bloggers who spend the equivalent of part-time, or even full-time, jobs writing reviews and talking up their favorite authors. All the people who take the time to post ranks on Goodreads and stars on Amazon, who tweet, email and Facebook message just to say that they loved a book.
9) that I live such a blessed life, that I get to spend my time doing this. That I am not living in a war zone, am not poverty-stricken, that I have the civil rights to write whatever I please, that I don't have to worry about my basic survival.
10) the universe gives us stories to tell in the first place.
Happy Thanksgiving everyone!
Saturday, November 26, 2011
Thankful: the Non-definitive List
I really don't even know where to start with the thankfulness and blessings thing. So, I'm just going with the things that pop into my head, not in any sort of ranking of importance:
1. A day off work. Nowhere special to be, nothing that needs to be done. No life and death problems to solve, no phone summoning me out of the house. Jammies 'til noon if I feel so inclined.
2. Living in a small town. We actually went into town on Friday, the Viking and I, although we are pretty much anti-Black Friday. There were no maddened crowds, no pepper spray, no shoving matches. We walked down main street and looked at the stores. We popped into the jewelry store to see if they could clean a tarnished silver chain and the jeweler treated us like we were the most important customers in the world and charged a pittance. We popped into the kitchen store, browsed around, and bought nothing. We went into the good juju store and bought incense. We sat down in the cafe and had a cup of excellent espresso. Everybody was relaxed and smiling and friendly.
3. Leftovers. There is nothing quite like leftover turkey and stuffing and mashed potatoes and gravy and green bean casserole. And pie. Lots, and lots of pie.
4. Family. College Boy is home for a few days. Guitar Boy is hanging out. The Viking is home. Thanks to phones and internet the rest of the far flung family is available at the touch of a few buttons.
5. The Cat. Even though we caught her up on the table eating the butter, even though she seems possessed the last few days with some particularly mischievous demon, I'm still grateful for the warm purry fur ball.
6. Internet friends. I'm sometimes astonished at the generosity and support writers show each other, and profoundly grateful to all those who have assisted me with my writing, in ways large and small.
7. Gnarly Head Old Vine Zin. 'Nuff said.
8. Books. My book shelves stacked and double stacked with favorites old and new. All of the books waiting to be read, in paper or electronic. Books written by people I "know" because of Twitter. Truly, this seems like magic to me sometimes.
9. Novel ideas bouncing around in my head and creating new ideas every time they collide. There is nothing quite like the lovely buzzing of a plot coming together half in-half out of the subconscious.
10. Flowers, out of season. A bright splash of color on the windowsill.
11. Plenty of wood for the winter, and a woodstove to burn it in. Nothing pushes back the darkness like the warm and toasty glow of a fire.
12. The trees and mountain and sky I see when I look out of my writing window.
Well, I could go on and on for a very long time, so I'll stop there. Your turn. What things are you especially thankful for today?
1. A day off work. Nowhere special to be, nothing that needs to be done. No life and death problems to solve, no phone summoning me out of the house. Jammies 'til noon if I feel so inclined.
2. Living in a small town. We actually went into town on Friday, the Viking and I, although we are pretty much anti-Black Friday. There were no maddened crowds, no pepper spray, no shoving matches. We walked down main street and looked at the stores. We popped into the jewelry store to see if they could clean a tarnished silver chain and the jeweler treated us like we were the most important customers in the world and charged a pittance. We popped into the kitchen store, browsed around, and bought nothing. We went into the good juju store and bought incense. We sat down in the cafe and had a cup of excellent espresso. Everybody was relaxed and smiling and friendly.
3. Leftovers. There is nothing quite like leftover turkey and stuffing and mashed potatoes and gravy and green bean casserole. And pie. Lots, and lots of pie.
4. Family. College Boy is home for a few days. Guitar Boy is hanging out. The Viking is home. Thanks to phones and internet the rest of the far flung family is available at the touch of a few buttons.
5. The Cat. Even though we caught her up on the table eating the butter, even though she seems possessed the last few days with some particularly mischievous demon, I'm still grateful for the warm purry fur ball.
6. Internet friends. I'm sometimes astonished at the generosity and support writers show each other, and profoundly grateful to all those who have assisted me with my writing, in ways large and small.
7. Gnarly Head Old Vine Zin. 'Nuff said.
8. Books. My book shelves stacked and double stacked with favorites old and new. All of the books waiting to be read, in paper or electronic. Books written by people I "know" because of Twitter. Truly, this seems like magic to me sometimes.
9. Novel ideas bouncing around in my head and creating new ideas every time they collide. There is nothing quite like the lovely buzzing of a plot coming together half in-half out of the subconscious.
10. Flowers, out of season. A bright splash of color on the windowsill.
11. Plenty of wood for the winter, and a woodstove to burn it in. Nothing pushes back the darkness like the warm and toasty glow of a fire.
12. The trees and mountain and sky I see when I look out of my writing window.
Well, I could go on and on for a very long time, so I'll stop there. Your turn. What things are you especially thankful for today?
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Friday, November 25, 2011
Gratitude
We spend the Thanksgiving holiday with my parents. This Nicadeimos. He's grateful for the woodburning stove that fronts this chair. Every year, I go over to Mom's a day early to help clean and cook. I don't have the space to cook Thanksgiving dinner - my oven is the size of a bread box - much less host the proceedings in any comfort. My sister is also in a small space. If we're going to gather at one table all at one time, it's either my folks' place or a restaurant some where. But like Mom said on Wednesday as we were making our third run to the grocery store for ingredients for our recipes, the dishes we cook on Thanksgiving have history. They say a lot about who we are as a family and they're the things we cook only once a year. Here's a sampling of what went on our table:- Squash Casserole
- Green Bean Casserole
- Baked Beans
- Brussels Sprouts (sauteed with onion and bacon)
- Buttermilk Biscuits
- Oyster Dressing
- Mushroom and Artichoke Heart Dressing
- Orange/Cranberry Sweet Potatoes in maple syrup
And that doesn't include the pies or the turkey. Thing is, we can tell you where every single recipe came from, trace the lineage of the food along with our family tree. The casseroles are from my mother's southern family, as are the biscuits. Oyster dressing and baked beans are from my dad's midwestern family. The brussels sprouts are unique to my parents. Mom and I heard the recipe on TV one day while I was still in high school. We tried it out and now, it's a rare day at my folks' place that you can open the fridge and not find brussels sprouts. The sweet potatoes come from my husband's family. They are one of his childhood favorites and the recipe has been absorbed into my larger family's tradition.
My gratitude list for the year includes the foods that connect me to previous generations. I'm grateful that I get to go to Mom's house a day early every year and make certain that the entire burden of prepping for the holiday doesn't fall solely on her, because, you know, have a look at Pikachu here on the right. He's so not into vacuuming the house or peeling potatoes. We're a lucky bunch. Right now, everyone is healthy and relatively happy. We live where we want to live and everyone who wants a job currently has a job. It's been a good year. And yesterday, we got to remember that.Thursday, November 24, 2011
Happy Thanksgiving!
No, I'm not actually having turkey wrapped in bacon...but I'd totally eat it if it was being served.
*ahem*
So, for those of us in the US, today is our Thanksgiving holiday, and regardless of any political meaning, it's usually an excuse for friends and family to gather together and gorge themselves - both on food and company.
Which I intend to do in just a little bit (although my needs are fairly simple this year - I'm not cooking, for which *everyone* is thankful - and I don't have to travel too far either, which is also a good thing.)
But I'll take a moment to reflect here and just say how grateful I am to have been afforded the opportunities I've been given, and for the people I've met and gotten to know this year. There have been some tough times as well - I lost my father-in-law back in April - and additional physical issues, and of course the usual minor hiccups along the way, but overall, I'm happy to be where I am. And truly, I'm thankful for the support from all the lovely people I know who helped me navigate some of the bumpier bumps.
Thanks guys.
How about you? What things are you thankful for today?
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