The Wrong Path to Publication: #AuthorFail

Disclaimer A: I'm still on the path to publication.

Disclaimer B: I'm no where near done making mistakes -- some of which are likely to be epically stupid and more than a little mortifying.

That said, the stupidest thing I've done on my path to publication is ... failing to network well. 

"It's not what you know, it's who you know."

I hate that saying with the sulfuric fires of a thousand dragons. The extreme introvert in me loathes to admit part of the assertion is true, yet not in the way of the inevitably nepotistic inference. The lie, of course, is that I can be successful and clueless. Bullshit. In the world of genre publishing, whoever the business fails to weed out before the book releases, the readers nail in a heartbeat.

That leaves the stomach-twisting truth:

"It is who you know."

The most wonderful and terrifying thing about genre writers is they are willing to create opportunities for folks who have proven to have a clue about the genre and a modicum of social skills.

How does that lead to my stupidity? I've met marvelous people in my quest for publication. Those marvelous people have either offered introductions or actually made the introductions to even more marvelous people.

I fail to do anything to develop those relationships past the introduction.  

#AuthorFail

Do NOT, not, not, not, not, not repeat my stupidity. Do take two minutes here and five minutes there to drop a line to those people you have been most fortunate to meet. Let them know you're thinking of them. Don't wait six months to follow up on an introduction. Say "hi" more than once a year. Do NOT contact them only to ask for something.

How do you maintain career acquaintances, dear reader? What is your one DO and your one DON'T?

Stupid Mistakes You Can Make in Your Writing Career

Rogue's Pawn releases tomorrow!
Rogue's Pawn releases tomorrow!
Rogue's Pawn releases tomorrow!

*deep, cleansing breath*

Okay, now that I have that out of my system, at least for the next five minutes, I can focus on today's topic: The Stupidest Thing I Did on the Path to Publication.

On the one hand, I feel like I have any number of mistakes, embarrassing gaffes and foolish choices to choose from. On the other.... I feel like my path has been meant. That things went the way they should have. Even my disappointments led me to a better place.

Maybe, it's like the truism that there are no stupid questions. Really, there is no such thing as a stupid mistake. Unless you keep making the SAME mistake. Then you're just being pathological.

But I am a bit embarrassed to admit that what I consider my most foolish mistake is one that is often repeated in warning: I sent my novel out too soon.

I hear this all the time now: don't shop it before it's ready. Which is absolutely what I did. I finished my novel, which I had slaved over for a long time and I started querying it. Agents jumped at it, asked to see it - and sent me rejections.

Over time, I learned it hadn't been ready.

Now, looking back I can see that, though I was a reasonably accomplished literary nonfiction writer with decent credentials, I did not know how to write genre. Though I'd had people read it, none of them were genre writers. I missed that opportunity - to be the fresh new thing for all these agents, because the book wasn't ready.

The thing is: I didn't know that.

Also? I don't think I could have known that.

Sure, maybe if I'd gotten involved in RWA earlier, had different crit from different kinds of writers, they might have guided me. But I didn't know that was something I needed to do until I got those rejections.

I know I rant sometimes about bad writing advice, stuff like "write a really good book." In truth, any time I hear a published author advice aspiring writers to "write a really good book," I want to kick him or her. Most useless, self-satisfied piece of advice on the planet. Right up there with "don't hurt yourself" and "choose wisely." And "don't send your book before it's ready."

This is all stupid advice, because if you could control these things, you would.

Oh, and that book I sent before it was ready? It's Rogue's Pawn. And it releases tomorrow!!!

Did I mention that part?

No such thing as a stupid mistake.