By Kerry Schafer
"Birds do it, bees do it, even educated fleas do it..." ~Cole Porter
"In most species of North American fireflies, during a certain time of night, males fly about flashing their species specific flash pattern. Females of the same species tend to be perched on vegetation, usually near the ground, and if a flashing male catches a female's fancy, she will respond at a fixed time delay after the last male's flash. A short flash dialogue may ensue between the male and female as the male locates her position and descends to mate (McDermott 1958)"
There's been some speculation this week about why guys do what they do. Does the male of the species really believe that if he wolf whistles out the window of his pickup truck at a female on the street, it will result in a mating? That "hubba hubba baby" or "what's a nice girl like you doing in a place like this?" will end with said girl in his bed?
I'd venture to suggest that these guys aren't thinking anything - with their BIG brain, at least. On an instinctual, animal level, they are giving off mating signals, much like the firefly zipping around in the darkness, randomly flashing his light in hopes that some appropriate female will respond.
The more successful males of the human species, those who have the highest probability of actually taking a female back to bed for the desired sexual union, have evolved. They've learned to select an individual target, study her, and adapt their mating signals to hers. They've developed charm and finesse, so much so that the recipient of their advances doesn't realize she's been "hit on" and believes instead that she has been romanced.
Even the wolf whistle guys get lucky sometimes.
A friend told me about this guy he knew, a roadie with a rock band. Easy for all of the band members to get laid, not so much for him. And yet, every night after a concert, he would begin approaching women, starting with the hottest one he could find. He would walk up to her and ask, "Hey, do you wanna fuck?" You'd expect a no to this, which was often the case. But the guy would persist, working the crowd, and I'm told that inevitably he ended up taking somebody back to his bed.
Persistent fireflies win out too, I guess, even if they're not evolved.
There's been some speculation this week about why guys do what they do. Does the male of the species really believe that if he wolf whistles out the window of his pickup truck at a female on the street, it will result in a mating? That "hubba hubba baby" or "what's a nice girl like you doing in a place like this?" will end with said girl in his bed?
I'd venture to suggest that these guys aren't thinking anything - with their BIG brain, at least. On an instinctual, animal level, they are giving off mating signals, much like the firefly zipping around in the darkness, randomly flashing his light in hopes that some appropriate female will respond.
The more successful males of the human species, those who have the highest probability of actually taking a female back to bed for the desired sexual union, have evolved. They've learned to select an individual target, study her, and adapt their mating signals to hers. They've developed charm and finesse, so much so that the recipient of their advances doesn't realize she's been "hit on" and believes instead that she has been romanced.
Even the wolf whistle guys get lucky sometimes.
A friend told me about this guy he knew, a roadie with a rock band. Easy for all of the band members to get laid, not so much for him. And yet, every night after a concert, he would begin approaching women, starting with the hottest one he could find. He would walk up to her and ask, "Hey, do you wanna fuck?" You'd expect a no to this, which was often the case. But the guy would persist, working the crowd, and I'm told that inevitably he ended up taking somebody back to his bed.
Persistent fireflies win out too, I guess, even if they're not evolved.
